中年男人心理失衡寻外遇
刘阿姨原本拥有一段美满的婚姻，夫妻恩爱，如胶似漆。可是，随着年龄的增长，人到中年的丈夫却突然变了。原本在事业上意气风发的他变得懒洋洋的，似乎对什么都感到心灰意冷，提不起精神来。最苦恼的是，他们一直很融洽的性生活也开始屡屡失败，原因是丈夫出现了阳痿、早泄症状。
刘阿姨对于丈夫突然出现的变化感到十分苦恼和不解，偶尔好心好意的关心却常遭到呵斥。但是，刘阿姨看得出来，丈夫对此也十分痛苦，常常为自己的所作所为后悔不已，但似乎控制不住自己的情绪。最终，他选择了逃避，一个人去了南方拓展业务。
半年后，刘阿姨收到丈夫的一封来信，让她彻底陷入了痛苦和无奈之中。丈夫在信中说，他在那边已经和另一个女人生活在一起，是那个女人让他恢复了男人的功能，而且比任何时候都强。他觉得他已经爱上她了，甚至多过爱他自己。最后，丈夫用负疚和卑下的语言提出了离婚，并承诺一笔巨款，聊以赎罪。
刘阿姨痛哭之后，冷静地选择了离婚。但是，事情在两个月后发生了戏剧性的变化。丈夫只身回来说，自己被那个女人骗了巨款，并在父母家中躲着无颜见妻儿。最终，刘阿姨原谅了丈夫，同他和好如初，过长了幸福美满的生活，
但是，直到现在，刘阿姨还是不明白丈夫为什么会出现这些变化，为什么原本意志坚定、乐观豁达的他会做出这样的决定。在同专家聊起这件事时，刘阿姨带着一脸的疑惑。
专家分析，刘阿姨丈夫的种种迹象表明，当时的他正处在男性更年期心理失衡状态，是男性更年期特有的心理症状。因为，男性进入更年期之后，除了表现出躯体症状如性欲下降、失眠、血压升高、易疲劳等，还会出现一些心理症状。
由于更年期男性雄激素(睾酮)分泌水平下降并不明显，因此可以认为男性更年期的身心症状与激素关系并不是太密切，因此也就没有有效的药物去缓解。那么，男性更年期出现不良的身心反应应该怎么办呢?专家给出了如下的建议：
1.坚持规律的体育锻炼，活跃身心，从而改善自我感觉，使精力充沛，信心增强。
2.坚持正常的工作和学习。这才是男人维持身心平衡最重要的一个保证。
3.保持稳定的家庭生活，不要做出太大的改变，更不要发生婚外情、离婚等。
最后专家提醒，如果男性的更年期症状严重，应该主动与家人交流，并及时就医。在医生正确的心理引导下，辅以缓解各种更年期症状的药物，帮助男性找回自信，安度更年期。
Aunt Liu originally had a happy marriage, the love of husband and wife, like glue. However, with the increase of age, the husband from middle to middle age suddenly changed. He became lazy in his career, and became lazy, and seemed to be frustrated with everything, and could not lift his spirits. The most distressing thing is that their sexual life, which has been very harmonious, has also begun to fail repeatedly, because the husband has symptoms of impotence and premature ejaculation.
Aunt Liu is very distressed and puzzled by her husband’s sudden changes. Occasionally, her kind and caring care is often scolded. However, Aunt Liu can see that her husband is also very painful about this, and often regrets what he has done, but he seems unable to control his emotions. In the end, he chose to escape and went to the south to expand his business.
Half a year later, Aunt Liu received a letter from her husband, causing her to fall into pain and helplessness completely. The husband said in the letter that he had lived with another woman over there. It was the woman who restored him to the function of a man, and it was stronger than ever. He felt he had fallen in love with her even more than himself. In the end, the husband filed a divorce in guilt and lowly language and promised a huge sum of money to talk about atonement.
After Aunt Liu wept bitterly, she calmly chose a divorce. However, things changed dramatically after two months. The husband went back and said that he had been deceived by the woman for huge sums of money and hid his wife and children in the parents’ home. In the end, Aunt Liu forgave her husband, reconciled with him and lived a happy and happy life,
However, until now, Aunt Liu still did not understand why these changes occurred in her husband, and why he would make such a decision when he was determined and optimistic. When talking about this matter with the experts, Aunt Liu was puzzled.
Expert analysis shows that all the signs of Aunt Liu’s husband indicate that he was in a state of male menopause psychological imbalance at that time, which is a unique psychological symptom of male menopause. Because after men enter menopause, in addition to showing physical symptoms such as decreased libido, insomnia, increased blood pressure, and fatigue, etc., some psychological symptoms will also appear.
Since menopausal men’s androgen (testosterone) secretion levels are not significantly reduced, it can be considered that the physical and mental symptoms of menopause are not too closely related to hormones, so there is no effective drug to relieve. So, what should be done if male menopause has adverse physical and mental reactions? Experts give the following suggestions:
1. Adhere to regular physical exercise, active body and mind, thereby improving self-feeling, energetic and confidence.
2. Adhere to normal work and study. This is the most important guarantee for men to maintain their physical and mental balance.
3. Maintain a stable family life, do not make too many changes, let alone extramarital affairs, divorce, etc.
Finally, experts reminded that if men have severe menopause symptoms, they should take the initiative to communicate with their families and seek medical treatment in a timely manner. Under the correct psychological guidance of doctors, supplemented with various medicines to relieve menopausal symptoms, help men find their confidence and calm down menopause.
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