男人想要分手时惯用的四大理由
男人都是这样，其爱来时汹汹，去也匆匆，前后态度呈现出冰火两重天。男人只要去意已决，任凭女人怎么挽留和扮可怜终究是难于打动男人的心，他们会想着法子或直接消失，或在无法收场的情况下编设着各种匪夷所思的动人借口去哄骗着女人宽容和接受他的背叛。
那么男人都喜欢用哪些借口向女人提出分手呢？在这里我特做一个简单的罗列分析，男人在分手时，喜欢找以下几种借口：
其一，我没能力给你更多的幸福，希望你可以找到一个比我更好的男人！
说这句话并不一定完全是用语言，他会用行动和情绪表达给你看，他会让你有一个心理接受的过程。恕我直言，说到底其实他只是在等着女人主动开口而已，他不断地以为你考虑，以还爱你但是却能力不够，不能给你足够的幸福为由，在分手的路上循序渐进。
其说再多漂亮的话，最终的目的还是为了和你分手，其根本的原因还是不爱你了。那么他们为什么要把简单的分手两个字搞得这么复杂呢？他们至少有两种心理，一方面是怕女人纠缠自己，从而让自己下不来台，所以在女人面前以爱的名义打悲情牌；另一方面是给女人一个台阶，正如网上有一个段子所言：如果可能，最好把分手两个字留给你曾经爱过的那个女孩说出来。
生活中也确实有真正是因为这样一种心理和女人分手的，但真的是太少了，而且他们是不是真的这样想的，完全可以从他的行动中和以往的品性中看出来，在这一点上女人如果稍微清醒一点的话，就会有自己的感觉的。
其二，家人不同意我和你在一起，我不想这样耽搁你的青春！
在分手的这个问题上，很多男人会为了面子，就算是打死他也是不愿意承认其分手的愿意是因为他不再爱你了。于是他会理所当然地扯出父母来，以父母的权威反对和自己的孝心为借口，向女方发动糖衣和纠结的劝慰。越是狡猾的男人，就越是可以把这个戏份演足，他可以提前数月向你“流露”出这样的信息，并表现出纠结，让女人主动问他为什么，然后顺水推舟让女人深信无疑……然而，恕我直言，有相当一部分的男人其实在内心早就把算盘打好了N次的。
出这样一种分析，我无意于把男人的内心丑恶化，而是现实生活中这样的例子和人真的是不少，让女人分了手却还在悲情的痛苦中不断回望，真的是很卑鄙无耻。
其三，请给我两年的时间吧，在这两年我要一个人好好奋斗，等好了我一定会回来娶你！
还有一些男人在分手时，会给女人许下诺言，留下一段豪言壮语，让女人为之动容的同时，不得不接受他“为爱远走天涯”的承诺，但最终解决分手的办法还是时间和距离……在这个问题上，其实男人早就想好了，他比谁都明白时间和距离会让一切改变的，他不用自己主动和女人说分手，时间和距离会让女人自己作出选择，反正只要两个人不在一起，我就是一个独立自由身，我做什么和哪个女人继续在一起，你一点也不知道。
说心里话，我不得不佩服这种男人的“智慧”了，只是在此把这等秘密说出来，不知道有多少如此“优秀的男人”会对我恨之入骨。
其四，我是为你好，有很多事情不能和你讲，咱们还是分手吧！
相比以上三种，这最后一种男人就更加会玩了，他啥都不和你说，索性和你玩起了深沉。而深沉的男人又往往是女人心最真的痛。他会把所有的过往和承诺都用一句话摆在你的面前：“亲爱的，我是为你好，有很多事情我现在不能和你讲，但你以后一定会明白的，咱们还是分手吧！”
多么深沉和具有男人味的话啊，女人为之陶醉，只是天空永远蔚蓝需要说明的是，恐怕等以后女人明白了的时候，这个男人早就抱着其他女人在怀里了，那个时候不明白也得明白，明白也是不明白，说到底当年他和你分手就是不爱你了，女人只不过是被男人忽悠了一下而已。
This is true for men. Their love is fierce when they come, and they go in a hurry. It ’s hard for a man to decide how to retain and act as a pity. It ’s hard to touch the man ’s heart. They will think of the way to disappear, or make up all kinds of unbelievable moving excuses to lie to them. The woman is tolerant and accepts his betrayal.
So what excuses do men like to propose to break up with women? Here I will do a simple list analysis. When men break up, they like to find the following excuses:
First, I have no ability to give you more happiness, I hope you can find a better man than me!
Saying this sentence is not necessarily entirely in words, he will show you with actions and emotions, he will let you have a psychological acceptance process. IMHO, in the final analysis, he is just waiting for the woman to take the initiative to speak. He constantly thinks that you think about it, loves you but does not have enough ability to give you enough happiness, and step by step on the way of breaking up.
No matter how beautiful it is, the ultimate goal is to break up with you, and the fundamental reason is still not to love you. So why do they make the simple breakup so complicated? They have at least two kinds of psychology. On the one hand, they are afraid that women will entangle themselves, so that they will not come to Taiwan, so they play tragic cards in the name of love in front of women; If possible, it ’s best to leave the word break up to the girl you once loved.
There are indeed people in life who really break up with women because of such a psychology, but there are really too few, and whether they really think so, can be seen from his actions and past qualities At this point, if a woman is a little sober, she will have her own feelings.
Second, my family doesn’t agree with me, I don’t want to delay your youth like this!
On the issue of breaking up, many men will try to save face, even if he is killed, he is unwilling to admit that his breakup is because he no longer loves you. So he took his parents for granted and, on the pretext of parental authority opposition and his own filial piety, launched sugar-coated and tangled consolation to the woman. The more cunning a man is, the more he can perform this part of the show. He can “show” such information to you several months in advance and show entanglement, let the woman actively ask him why, and then push the boat down the river to convince the woman … … However, IMHO, there are quite a few men who have already played the abacus N times in their hearts.
With such an analysis, I did not intend to worsen the inner ugliness of men, but there are really a lot of examples and people in real life, letting women break up and still looking back in the pain of grief, really It is very mean and shameless.
Third, please give me two years. In these two years, I want to fight alone, and I will definitely come back to marry you when I am done!
There are also some men who make promises to women when they break up, leaving a brave speech to make women impressed. At the same time, they have to accept his promise to “walk the world for love”, but the final solution to the breakup is time And distance … On this issue, in fact, men have long thought about it. He knows that time and distance will change everything. No one needs to take the initiative to break up with women. Time and distance will make women choose. Anyway, as long as the two are not together, I am an independent and free body. What do I do with which woman to stay with? You don’t know at all.
In my heart, I have to admire this man’s “wisdom”, but just tell these secrets here, I don’t know how many such “excellent men” will hate me.
Fourth, I ’m doing it for you. There are many things I ca n’t tell you, let ’s break up!
Compared to the above three, this last kind of man is more likely to play, he said nothing to you, simply playing with you deeply. And deep men are often the most real pain in women’s hearts. He will put all the past and promises in front of you in one sentence: “My dear, I am for you, there are many things I ca n’t tell you now, but you will understand later, let ’s break up. ! ”
What a deep and masculine word, women are intoxicated, but the sky is always blue. I need to explain that when the woman understands it later, this man has already held other women in his arms. You have to understand, understand and do n’t understand. After all, he broke up with you just because he did n’t love you. The woman was just fooled by the man.
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