男人为什么会害怕女人上网

说来会让大家见笑。我的网龄大约仅有三年，涉网以来也与不少的女性聊友聊过天，有些女性问我，你常上网聊天，你老婆不骂你吗?对这种提问，我心存疑虑。上网有什么值得骂的呢?于是我礼尚往来地问她们，你们上网你们的老公会骂吗?十有八九的女性都作出了肯定的回答。

情形一：某女坐在电脑前微笑着和一男士聊天，其实都是些生活与工作的自然交流 ，不时流露出开心的表情。 其夫满脸恼恨：你个贱女人又在勾引男人!(此话恶俗

情形二：某女看见对方送过来的一支鲜艳的玫瑰，很分寸地回了一支蔫了的玫瑰，意思是我们这个年龄没有爱情可言。其夫看见，心里很不是滋味：你还在和男人打情骂俏啊。 (此话酸溜

情形三：某女正在兴致勃勃地在网上发帖、看帖，或与男网友玩些网络游戏什么的，其夫独自看完电视后见妻仍在网上乐不思“床”，气愤地拉闸断电了，妻摸着黑下楼摔伤了。

姐妹们常抱怨，自己的丈夫如何的心胸狭隘，看到她们坐在网边谈笑风生，就顿生妒意;看到别的男人送过来的一支不值钱的玫瑰也会醋劲十足;还好，要是他能读懂QQ里或泡泡里的那些脸谱不就更加耿耿于怀了?

网络之于女人们，也不过是镜中花水中月的精神寄托，男人们用不着那么惊慌。下了网，女人们一样是贤妻一样是良母。男人们，在生活里不愿陪伴老婆也就算了，如果还过分到要掐断那根网线，把女人们在网上的一点寄托都割断，我觉得还是很过分的，有时候会适得其反。

女人们在网上能做出什么?越轨?不忠?好像都谈不上。充其量是碰到了一个修养好的男人，愿意聆听她生活的男人，然后是几句平淡的了解，也许在她看来就是有别于柴米油盐的鲜活，就是有别于一张床两根木头的温暖的感觉。女人们很想很渴望爱情，仅仅是一种虚拟的支撑，当生活磨灭了她们的梦想时，她们在网络里只是希望能找到被关怀被爱的感觉，找到一个可以盛放她们的太多琐碎苦恼的容器，让她们卸载生活的诸多不如意。仅此而已。

网络开通这么多年，有多少离婚是因为网络而引起的?都是活生生的现实生活的放纵导致了家庭的最终破灭。一个真正放纵的女人不会到网上来放纵，因为生活里的放纵会让她们有更多的乐趣;一个真正放纵的男人也不会到网络里来放纵，因为生活里的放纵来得更加实际而便利。所以，我一向以为，能到网络里寻找精神的，已经算得很纯粹的人了，感性的人了，责任的人了。无论夫与妇，坐在网边，为什么不能为彼此打造一个自由的空间精神的空间呢?让她们哪怕有那么短暂的片刻的沉醉，让她们被平淡的生活逐渐麻木的心有点感觉呢?这点要求确实微不足道。每个男人，只要那么大度一点点，宽容一点点，生活的感觉会很不一样。

女人上网，男人说恶俗的话，除了让女人多一份不屑与恶感，没有其他;女人上网，男人在一旁醋溜，除了暴露男人自己的不自信外，留不下好印象。

所以，男人们不要惧怕女人们上网，要尽管地给她们一份宽松。女人上网如同她们做梦一样，如果你不能每夜守着她们的梦，那就任由她们梦去。梦醒是现实，网下是生活，一切和从前没有两样。何以要恶俗了他去醋溜了他去呢?

It will make everyone laugh. My Internet age is only about three years. I have been chatting with a lot of female friends since I was involved in the Internet. Some women have asked me, you often chat online. Does your wife not scold you? I have doubts about this kind of question . What is worthy of scolding on the Internet? So I reciprocally asked them, would your husband scold you online? Ten out of ten women all gave affirmative answers.

Case 1: A woman sitting in front of a computer smiling and chatting with a man is actually a natural exchange of life and work, with a happy expression from time to time. His husband’s face is full of annoyance: you mean woman is seduce a man again!

Case 2: A woman saw a bright rose sent by the other party, and returned a slack rose, which means that there is no love at our age. His husband saw that it was not a taste in his heart: you are still flirting with men. (The words are sour

Scenario 3: A woman is actively posting or watching posts on the Internet, or playing online games with male netizens. When her husband watches the TV alone, he sees that his wife is still thinking about “beds” on the Internet and angrily pulls the brakes. When the power was cut off, his wife fell downstairs and felt injured.

Sisters often complain that their husbands are so narrow-minded that they are jealous when they see them sitting on the net and talking and laughing; they are also jealous when they see a valuable rose from another man; fortunately, What if he could read the facial expressions in QQ or Bubbles?

The internet is only for women, but it is only the spiritual sustenance of the moon in the mirror. Men don’t need to panic. Off the net, women are like good wives and like mothers. Men, even if you don’t want to accompany your wife in your life, if you are too much to cut off the network cable, and cut off all the women’s online sustenance, I think it is still too much, and sometimes it is counterproductive.

What can women do on the Internet? Deviant? Unfaithful? It seems that they can’t talk about it. At best, I met a well-cultivated man, a man willing to listen to her life, and then a few simple understandings. Perhaps in her opinion, it is different from the freshness of the rice, oil and salt, and it is different from two woods in a bed. Feeling warm. Women are very eager and eager for love, just a kind of virtual support. When life wipes out their dreams, they just hope to find the feeling of being cared for and loved on the Internet, and find a trivial place that can hold them. The distressed container made them unload many unsatisfactory lives. That’s all.

The Internet has been open for so many years, how many divorces are caused by the Internet? It is all the indulgence of real life that led to the eventual destruction of the family. A woman who really indulges will not go online to indulge, because indulgence in life will make them have more fun; a man who really indulges will not go to the network to indulge, because indulgence in life is more practical and convenient . Therefore, I always thought that those who can find spirits in the Internet can be regarded as pure people, emotional people, and responsible people. No matter husband and wife, sitting by the net, why can’t they create a free space spirit space for each other? Let them have a brief moment of indulgence, let them feel a little bit numb by the dull life? The point requirement is really trivial. Every man, as long as he is so generous and tolerant a little, will feel very different in life.

Women go online, and if men say vulgar things, there is nothing more than letting women have more disdain and disgust; women go online, and men are on the sidelines. In addition to exposing men’s own self-confidence, they can’t leave a good impression.

Therefore, men should not be afraid of women surfing the Internet, but should give them a lenient. Women go online as they dream, if you can’t keep their dreams every night, then let them dream. Waking up in dreams is reality, life under the net is the same as before. Why was he so vulgar that he went to jealousy?

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