男人也需要走出失恋阴影

女人变心是很正常的事，就跟男人有抽烟的习惯一样。拿得起放得下，希望经历过感情波折的男人或者即将要经历感情波折的男人能理性对待，以后真正懂得去揣摩女人的心理。

(一)忘记回不来的快乐

不要去想以前跟她在一起的快乐时光，多去想她的缺点和坏处，要不然你很难忘记她，你自己也会很痛苦。

(二)充实自己的内心和生活

遭遇变心了的女人，可怜的兄弟们肯定会想着她还会回来，然后对她要比以前更好，俩人回到过去开始恋爱时的那种甜蜜生活。不要这样了!把她送给你的东西全部扔掉，把跟她一起去买的东西全部扔掉，把她用过的东西全部扔掉，把她留在你住所的东西全部扔掉。不要去想以后碰面会怎么样，不要有“分手是朋友”这样的想法。如果撇开了爱情，你们是绝对不可能成为朋友的，再说，就算哪天碰面了，她也会装作不认识你，她绝对不想让你和她的过期感情影响到她现在生活。

(三)避免一个人呆着

尽量不要单独呆在家里，可以找些朋友去喝喝酒，到KTV里面去唱唱歌，发泄发泄。白天要上班上学不说，反正晚上尽量给自己找节目，不要让自己安静下来。玩到很累的时候回家，洗个澡马上就可以睡着了，或者在睡前喝点酒也不失为一个好办法，免得自己胡思乱想。

(四)寻找新目标

男人都有征服欲望，你现在觉得征服不了她，所以很伤悲。你可以自己重新设定一个新的征服目标，这样有助于你分散想她的精力。或者买一个难度极大的游戏回去玩，一定要玩通关!还有，据说失恋的人考研和考公务员特别容易通过，建议大家去试试!

(五)不听靡靡之音

要注意失恋后的禁忌。失恋的人都喜欢听点音乐，试图消除内心的寂寞、无奈和痛苦，无论是用电脑多媒体音箱、家庭影院还是MP3随身听。要尽量听一些有助于自己忘记她的歌曲，千万不要听伤心情歌。

(六)别再探听她的消息

她变心以后，你肯定还想多了解一下她的近况，说白了就是想知道她还在不在乎你，你还有没有把她追求回来的可能。所以，你会假装打错她朋友的电话，你会访问她的博客，你会去她喜欢去的地方……别傻了，做这些事情，除了让自己更心痛，没有任何的帮助!

It is normal for women to change their hearts, just like men have a habit of smoking. I can afford it and let it go. I hope that men who have experienced emotional ups and downs or men who are about to experience emotional ups and downs can be treated rationally, and truly know how to figure out the psychology of women in the future.

(1) Forget the happiness that cannot come back

Don’t think about the happy time with her before, think more about her shortcomings and disadvantages, otherwise it will be difficult for you to forget her, and you will also be very painful.

(2) Enrich your heart and life

Encountering a woman who has changed her heart, the poor brothers will definitely think that she will come back, and treat her better than before. The two went back to the sweet life that they had when they started dating. Don’t do this! Throw away all the things she gave you, all the things she bought with her, all the things she used, and all the things she left in your residence. Don’t think about what will happen to you in the future, don’t have the idea of ​​”breaking up is a friend”. If you leave love aside, it is absolutely impossible for you to become friends. Besides, even if you meet one day, she will pretend not to know you. She definitely does not want the expired relationship between you and her to affect her current life.

(3) Avoid being alone

Try not to stay at home alone. You can find some friends to drink, sing and vent in KTV. Don’t talk about going to work and school during the day, anyway, try to find a show for yourself at night, don’t let yourself quiet down. It’s a good idea to go home when you’re tired of playing, take a shower and you’ll be able to fall asleep right away, or drink some alcohol before going to bed so you don’t think about it.

(four) looking for new goals

Men have a desire to conquer, and you feel that you cannot conquer her now, so you are very sad. You can reset a new conquest goal yourself, which will help you distract you from thinking about her. Or buy a very difficult game and go back to play, you must play through the customs! Also, it is said that people who are broken in love can pass the postgraduate entrance examination and civil service entrance examination especially easily. I suggest you try it!

(5) Don’t listen to the depressive sound

Pay attention to the taboos after a broken relationship. Love-lost people like to listen to some music, trying to eliminate the loneliness, helplessness and pain in their hearts, whether they use computer multimedia speakers, home theaters or MP3 players. Try to listen to some songs that help you forget her, don’t listen to songs that hurt your mood.

(Six) Don’t listen to her news again

After she changes her heart, you definitely want to know more about her current situation. To put it bluntly, you just want to know if she still doesn’t care about you, and whether you have the possibility of pursuing her back. So, you will pretend to call her friend the wrong phone, you will visit her blog, and you will go where she likes to go… Don’t be silly, do these things, except to make yourself more heartache, there is no help!

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