曾出演过《男才女貌》《101次求婚》《少年杨家将》等片的吴佳尼在2007年与大她21岁的马景涛相识，婚后育有二子。近日，其开通微博，引来大批粉丝围观。马景涛叔叔的咆哮音可是一个年代的回忆，小编也是看马叔叔的剧长大的，而他与现任妻子的老少恋也成为焦点。演艺圈也有很多这类型的老少恋的典范，不过，此类婚姻多以分手收场，那么怎样才能维持老少恋的婚姻呢？

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以下两点仅供参考。

明确规划最重要。在双方行为模式不同的各个方面提早进行协调。在选择一场婚姻之前，无论男女，都必须考虑周详。尤其是，婚姻的另一半和自己之间有着深深的年龄鸿沟。当婚姻的版本是“老夫少妻”的时候，女性要考虑，为什么选年长的他。婚姻初始，也许你爱他的沉稳、踏实、事业有成，但这也意味着同时也选择了对方年长之后的“副作用”：沉稳可能发展为缺少活力，踏实变成了保守，就连事业有成也可能变成“不求上进”。换个角度来看问题，你对他的不满就会减轻。

同时，年长的丈夫更早进入老龄阶段，意味着妻子需要花更多的时间和精力去照顾他，而这往往有悖少妻选择的初衷。妻子当初的心理是希望得到丈夫更多的关照，尽管这种关照多来源于精神，而不单纯是生理的。而这时候双方的心理需要变化时，能否重新调整适应是婚姻能否保鲜与延续的关键。专家认为，一般而言，男性的平均寿命本来就比女性短，如果丈夫再比妻子大很多，那么有可能最终会是丈夫撒手人寰，妻子独守孤单。

互相扶持是关键。年龄差距比较大的夫妻，精神恋爱比一般夫妻显得更加重要，对于周围异样的眼光，双方都更需要彼此之间爱的关怀来让婚姻进行下去。因为婚姻带来的，不只是相互拥有的权利，还要有对彼此的责任。同时，双方也要对未来可能出现的离婚有一个心理准备，做好冷静面对矛盾和坦然接受分手的准备。

Wu Jiani, who has appeared in films such as “Men and Women”, “101 Proposals”, and “Young Yang Family General”, met with her 21-year-old Ma Jingtao in 2007 and had two children after marriage. Recently, it opened Weibo, attracting a large number of fans to watch. The roaring sound of Uncle Ma Jingtao is a memory of an era. The editor also grew up watching Uncle Ma’s play, and his love for the old and young of his current wife has also become the focus. There are many examples of this type of old and young lovers in the entertainment industry. However, such marriages mostly end in breakups. How can we maintain the marriage of old and young lovers?

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How do men hold Xiao Jiao’s wife

The following two points are for reference only.

Clear planning is the most important. Coordinate early in all aspects of the different behavior patterns of both parties. Before choosing a marriage, both men and women must be considered carefully. In particular, there is a deep age gap between the other half of the marriage and yourself. When the version of marriage is “old husband and wife”, women should consider why they choose the older one. At the beginning of the marriage, maybe you love his stability, down-to-earth, and career success, but this also means that he also chooses the “side effect” of the other party’s old age: calmness may develop into a lack of vitality, down-to-earth becomes conservative, even career Success can also become “not seeking progress”. Looking at the problem from another angle, your dissatisfaction with him will be alleviated.

At the same time, the older husband enters the aging stage earlier, which means that the wife needs to spend more time and energy to take care of him, which is often contrary to the original intention of the young wife’s choice. At first, the wife’s psychology was to get more care from her husband, although this kind of care is mostly from the spirit, not just physical. At this time, when the psychological needs of both parties change, the ability to readjust and adapt is the key to the preservation and continuity of marriage. Experts believe that, in general, the average life expectancy of men is shorter than that of women. If the husband is much older than the wife, then it may end up being the husband and the wife alone.

Support each other is the key. For couples with a large age gap, spiritual love is more important than ordinary couples. For the different visions around them, both sides need the love of each other to let the marriage go on. Because marriage brings not only rights to each other, but also responsibilities to each other. At the same time, both parties should also be mentally prepared for possible divorce in the future, and be prepared to calmly face the conflict and accept the breakup.

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