男人选另一半四个潜规则

一、恋人是恋人，妻子是妻子。天木纯

不要觉得男人的心思就不缜密。对于恋爱和婚姻，他们有时候比女人还缜密，因此，男人会把妻子而恋人分的很清。甚至可以很快看透哪些女人适合当妻子，哪些女人只能当恋人。他们能分清主次。对待不同的女性，男人会付出不同的心血，也会有不一样的区别对待。

对待那些玩玩而已的女性，男人也是抱着玩玩的心态，激情过后，你不要奢求他还记得你；对那些用来谈恋爱的女性，他也是很用心地付出自己的感情，可是他不会很严格要求你，因为他明白爱恋终究会过去，你不是要跟他过一辈子的女人，所以他会对你很宽容；但只有对一个女人会严格苛刻，那就是自己的妻子。不要觉得男人总是处处跟你计较，嫌弃你这嫌弃你那就是不爱你，甚至不把你当妻子。其实只有他们自己心里明白，他们这么挑剔只有一个目的那就是因为你能更加美好。毕竟对他来说，妻子就像是房子，要稳定，要牢固，更需要花时间和感情去维系去追求，共同维系。

我们可以因为男人分不清主次、很花心，总是朝三暮四。而讨厌他。但是并不能因为他对我们的挑剔而讨厌他。我们更应该坦然的接受，因为他的挑剔至少证明了他的在乎。所以不如想想你的缺点是不是都被他说对了。然后试着去改正它们。变得越来越完美。男人心里就自然只会有你。

二、女人可以相貌平平，但心灵一定要美。

蛇蝎美人，外表虽然很让人着迷，容易迷惑到人，但时间久了她内心的邪恶早已显露在美丽的脸蛋，使这种美变得面目全非。更何况美貌只能是一时的，就像男人的恋爱阶段一样。都是一时的。而男人真正会娶的，不一定就是那个貌美如花的女人，更有可能会娶一个相貌平平，但内心最至善至美的女人。这就是梦幻的恋爱和现实的婚姻的差距。因为是恋爱，男人更加享受的是视觉上的美丽。毕竟不是过一辈子的人。只要有美貌就可以忽视心灵的好坏。但是倘若是说到结婚，找一个终生的伴侣。那么男人首先不会考虑的就是貌美如花心肠却不那么好的女人。

甚至可以说，恋爱的时候男人看上的是脸蛋，而结婚的时候男人看上的却是内心的美。每个人都知道，生老病死是永远也不能改变的事实。而人始终会变老，当时光慢慢的流逝，外貌也会随时光的逝去而老去的，而唯独人的心灵美与丑是永远不变的。俗话说，江山易改本性难移。也许跟这个有异曲同工之妙。而对于一个成熟的男人来说，他们阅历无数，所以更会意识到这一点。就像王子为什么最终没有选择灰姑娘的姐姐一样，因为她们的心肠狠毒，像灰姑娘那样的有着好的品质的女性才是不少王子梦寐以求的对象。

三、男人需要有生活趣味的妻子，而不是爱撒娇的女友。

女人和男人的不同，可以在很多方面体现出。尤其是女人的撒娇天性。很多女人都觉得娇滴滴的女人会给男人一种想要保护想要呵护的欲望。而在恋爱阶段，男人的确很喜欢这样能让自己有当英雄感觉的女友。但是如果考虑到婚姻。那么男人未必会选择一个娇滴滴的妻子。就如诸葛亮娶黄月英一样。诸葛亮只所以会娶黄月英不是因为她的娇滴，更重要的是因为诸葛亮知道黄月英是一个聪慧有才能的女人，在很多时候她都能帮助诸葛亮。

所以面对婚姻，男人更需要的是一个能够帮助自己和自己共同经历风雨，坚强自信，有生活趣味的妻子而不是一个只会撒娇躲在男人身后的女人。在恋爱的时候，因为男人的年轻气盛，男子汉气概让他们会选择一个娇滴滴的女人做女友。但是如果选择妻子，他们就不会再选择一个只会站在自己身后的女人做妻子。毕竟男人偶尔也会缺乏安全感。他们也有恐惧的时候，当他们不再风光的时候，并不能确定一个娇滴滴的女人还会一如既往的跟着他的步伐，陪他一起走下去。

相反，一个有自信个性又独立，有生活趣味的女人，不会在男人失意的时候轻易离开。甚至能帮助男人走出迷雾，走向另一个成功道路。社会对男人赋予了很重的责任，要养家糊口，还要保护自己的家人。从小，他们接受的教育就是要坚强，不能哭，不能软弱，要像个男人。在外人面前，他表现得很坚强，可是，内心也有软弱脆弱的时候。他们只有在自己最亲密的人面前表现出脆弱的一面。所以他需要一个可以和他一起经历风雨，内心强大，懂得宽容的妻子。他知道只有这样的人，才能让他真正无所顾忌地去奋斗，去生活。

四、拒绝暧昧

暧昧对于当下的每个人来说，并不是一个陌生的词汇。甚至生活中经常会出现暧昧。倘若你没选好一个人，你可以跟其他人保持暧昧的关系。就比如在恋爱的初期，不确定这个人是否是好的。你可以暧昧。但是倘若两个人到了谈婚论嫁的地步，那么就最好把一些暧昧的关系快刀斩断。以免未来会引起不必要的麻烦，让你们的婚姻受到威胁。尤其男人是占有欲很强的动物，如果他认定是自己的东西，他不会让别人同时占有。如果你举止轻浮，甚至给他戴绿帽，那么等待你的，注定是悲惨的结局。对于暧昧从来不拒绝的女人，会给男人一种太随便的感觉，当一个男人对女人有了这种感觉，那么注定了他们缘分的短浅。

1. Lovers are lovers, and wives are wives.

Don’t think that men’s minds are not meticulous. For love and marriage, they are sometimes more meticulous than women, so men will distinguish their wives and lovers clearly. You can even quickly see which women are suitable as wives and which women can only be lovers. They can distinguish between primary and secondary. Treating different women, men will pay different efforts and will have different treatments.

Treating those women who are just for fun, men are also holding a play mentality. After the passion, you don’t want to ask him to remember you; for women who are in love, he is also very hard to give his feelings, but he does not You will be very strict, because he understands that love will eventually pass, you are not a woman who has lived with him for a lifetime, so he will be very forgiving to you; but only for a woman who will be strict and harsh, that is his wife. Don’t think that men always care about you everywhere. If they dislike you, they don’t love you or even treat you as a wife. In fact, only they know in their hearts that they have only one purpose for being so picky because you can be better. After all, to him, his wife is like a house. To be stable and firm, he needs to spend time and feelings to maintain and pursue together.

Because we can’t distinguish between the primary and the secondary, we are always very frustrated, and we always go in the evening. And hate him. But he can’t hate him because he is critical of us. We should accept it more frankly, because his criticism at least proves that he cares. So it is better to think about whether your shortcomings are all right. Then try to correct them. Become more and more perfect. Men will naturally only have you in their hearts.

Second, women can look ordinary, but the soul must be beautiful.

Scorpion beauty, although the appearance is very fascinating and easy to confuse people, but the evil inside her has long been revealed in the beautiful face, making this beauty beyond recognition. What’s more, beauty can only be temporary, just like a man’s love stage. It’s all temporary. And what a man will really marry is not necessarily that beautiful woman, but is more likely to marry a woman with a mediocre appearance but the most perfect heart. This is the gap between dreamy love and real marriage. Because of love, men are more visually beautiful. After all, it is not a person who has lived a lifetime. As long as you have good looks, you can ignore the quality of your soul. But if it comes to getting married, find a lifelong partner. Then the first thing a man will not consider is a woman who is beautiful but not so good.

It can even be said that men fall in love with their faces when they are in love, while men fall in love with their inner beauty when they get married. Everyone knows that life, death, old age, sickness and death are facts that can never be changed. And people will always grow old. At that time, the light slowly passed, and the appearance will also fade away and grow old, but the beauty and ugliness of the soul alone will never change. As the saying goes, the nature of Jiangshan is difficult to change. Maybe it’s the same as this one. For a mature man, they have countless experiences, so they will be more aware of this. Just like why the prince did not choose Cinderella’s sister in the end, because their hearts are vicious, women with good quality like Cinderella are the objects that many princes dream of.

3. Men need wives who have fun in life, not girlfriends who love coquetry.

The difference between women and men can be reflected in many ways. Especially the spoiled nature of women. Many women think that a charming woman will give a man a desire to protect and want to be pampered. And in the love stage, men really like girlfriends who can make themselves feel like heroes. But if you consider marriage. Then men may not choose a witty wife. Just like Zhuge Liang married Huang Yueying. The reason why Zhuge Liang would marry Huang Yueying was not because of her tenderness, but more importantly because Zhuge Liang knew that Huang Yueying was a smart and talented woman, and she could help Zhuge Liang many times.

So in the face of marriage, men need a wife who can help themselves and themselves through the storms, strong self-confidence, and interesting in life, not a woman who only hides behind the man. When in love, because of the young man’s masculinity, manliness made them choose a charming woman as his girlfriend. But if they choose a wife, they will not choose a woman who will only stand behind them as a wife. After all, men occasionally lack security. They also have fears. When they are no longer beautiful, they are not sure that a charming woman will follow his pace and walk with him as always.

On the contrary, a woman with a confident personality and an independent, interesting life will not easily leave when a man is frustrated. It can even help men get out of the fog and go to another path of success. Society has placed a heavy responsibility on men to support their families and protect their families. From an early age, the education they received was to be strong, not cry, not weak, and be like a man. He was very strong in front of outsiders, but his heart was weak and fragile. They only show their fragility in front of their closest people. So he needs a wife who can experience wind and rain with him, has a strong heart, and understands tolerance. He knew that only such a person could make him truly struggle and live without care.

Fourth, refuse to ambiguous

Ambiguity is not a strange word for everyone. Ambiguity often appears in life. If you don’t choose a person, you can maintain an ambiguous relationship with others. Just like in the early days of love, not sure if this person is good. You can be ambiguous. But if the two people reach the point of talking about marriage, then it is best to cut off some ambiguous relationships quickly. In order not to cause unnecessary trouble in the future, your marriage will be threatened. Especially men are possessive animals. If he thinks it is his own thing, he will not let others possess it at the same time. If you behave frivolously and even wear him a green hat, what awaits you is destined to a tragic ending. For a woman who never refuses to be ambiguous, it will give the man a feeling of being too casual. When a man feels this way about a woman, it is destined to be short-lived.

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