中国男人谈恋爱到底有多累

这女人就是听觉动物，喜好甜言密语，男人放下尊严百般讨好，往往能够打动女孩子的心。

不过你也别认为女孩子就这样的肤浅易哄，有些女孩子考验异性的花招是层出不穷的，特别是中国的女孩子，常常喜欢扮出一个高姿态来试探你到底爱她有多深。她会在八号风球的夜晚让你跑一百公里的地帮她买她爱吃的宵夜，她会在周未的早上把你从床上拉起来陪她逛一天的街，她会比较你在情人节送的玫瑰花是不是比人家的小，她会要你一天说一百句 “我爱你”，却对你的态度始终暧昧不清。

说到谈恋爱的中国男人有多累，我想说我公司一个男同事的事，他交了个女朋友，文化程度比他高得多，英语达到六级，在一家外贸公司当翻译，可他本人只有高中文化水平，一开始，所有的人都不看好他们，认为文化水平相差太多了。他的女朋友圈子里都是些高级白领，说话带一两句洋文的那种，而这位男同事常常只能呆呆的在一边听着，他没有办法播上一句话，任务只有一个，那就是等她们吃光了谈完了买单。而她们出入都喜欢去那些高级的西餐厅，所以我这位男同事虽然收入也不错，但还是每个月成了月光族，甚至经常是月头发工资，月中就连买烟的钱也没有了。

虽然如此，可男同事还是乐此不疲，认为交到一个有文化的女朋友很有面子，看过他的女朋友，长相不敢恭维，不过打扮上还是比较雅致的，在这个男同事的猛烈追求下，她终于投入了他的怀抱中，与他一起同居了。同居之后，出去应酬的次数也就相对少了，可是男同事的身上还是没有钱，听说是这个女人每天检查他的钱包，每天只给他留下两位数的零钱坐车吃饭。按说如果两个都乐意，别人也无话可说，可是男同事却成了公司里人人避而远之的人，因为他出去与大家吃饭，从来没有钱买单不说，他的女朋友还经常要打电话查岗，问他和谁在一起，不相信的时候还要他把电话给另一个人听，这情侣之间相处得如此不信任，还真是累。

不过那些控制钱呀查岗呀之类的，都可以说成是这个女人在乎他的表现，最令人不能忍受的是，有一次公司聚餐的时候，男同事带了他的女朋友一起参加，这个女人全程一副高高在在的姿态，要她的男朋友帮她夹菜倒茶的，原本男人侍候女朋友也没有什么，只是这女人的总是用命令的口气对他说话，让我们这些外人看了都有些打抱不平了。我觉得女人在家里可以任性蛮横一点，男人迁就点就没事了，可是在外面一定要给男人留面子，毕竟男人是要面对社会的，如果真爱这个男人，自然不希望这个男人被人耻笑，可是她一点也不懂得，认为这个男人追求她就得经受她的这些考验。

大家应该都猜到他们的结局了吧?男人终于不堪忍受提出了分手，以为对方不过是说说而已，没有多加挽留，可是这个男同事是真的伤透了心，他辞掉了公司的工作，去了深圳，那个女人才知道自己有多么的愚蠢，哭诉着不让这个男人离开自己，说自己会改变，可是已经来不及了，男人说还是分开一段时间吧，如果真的适合彼此，还是会有机会在一起的。或者他们以后还会再相见，只是从他们的身上不难看出中国男女谈恋爱的一些现象，女人总是以矜持为贵，认为在爱情之中，男人要主动的追求，明明心里喜欢对方也不会表达出来，恋爱是两个人的事，不要总是一方不停的在付出，要知道一双手伸久也，累了就会自然反应的放下。如果恋爱是种负累，最终只会以放弃为结束。

This woman is an auditory animal, and she likes sweet words. Men put down their dignity to please, and often can touch the hearts of girls.

But you don’t think that girls are so superficial and easy to coax. Some girls have endless tricks to test the opposite sex, especially Chinese girls, who often like to play a high posture to test how deep you love her. She will let you run a hundred kilometers on the night of the No. 8 typhoon to help her buy her favorite supper. She will pull you up from the bed on the morning of Zhou Wei to accompany her to visit the street for a day, she will compare Is the rose you sent on Valentine’s Day smaller than others? She will ask you to say “I love you” a day, but her attitude towards you is always ambiguous.

Speaking of how tired Chinese men in love are, I want to talk about a male colleague in my company. He has made a girlfriend. He has a much higher education level. He has reached level 6 in English. He works as a translator in a foreign trade company. He himself only has high school education level. At first, all people were not optimistic about them, thinking that there was too much difference in education level. His girlfriends are all high-level white-collar workers who speak with a sentence or two in foreign language, and this male colleague often can only listen to it in silence, he has no way to broadcast a sentence, only one task, That is to wait for them to eat up and talk about the payment. And they both like to go to those high-end western restaurants, so although my male colleague’s income is not bad, he still becomes a moonlight family every month, and even often pays a monthly salary, and even has no money to buy cigarettes in the middle of the month. Too.

Despite this, the male colleague still enjoys it. He thinks that it is a good face to have a girlfriend who is literate. He has seen his girlfriend and he doesn’t dare to compliment him. However, he is still elegant in his dress. , She finally fell into his arms and lived with him. After cohabitation, the number of outings was relatively small, but the male colleague still had no money. It is said that this woman checked his wallet every day, leaving him only double-digit change every day to take a car to eat. Ordinarily, if both are happy, and others have nothing to say, but the male colleague has become a shun for everyone in the company, because he went out to eat with everyone, and never had the money to pay the bill, his girlfriend still I often call Cha Gang and ask who he is with. When I don’t believe, I still need him to give the phone to another person. It’s really tiring to get along with the couple so distrustfully.

However, those who control money, check posts, and the like can be said that this woman cares about his performance. The most unbearable thing is that when a company dinner, a male colleague brought his girlfriend to participate in this. The woman was in a high-spirited attitude, asking her boyfriend to help her to pour tea and serve tea. Originally, there was nothing for men to serve their girlfriends, but this woman always talked to him with commanded tone, let us these Outsiders looked a bit ugly. I think a woman can be a bit more arrogant at home, and a man will be okay when he is comfortable, but he must save his face outside. After all, a man has to face the society. If he really loves this man, he naturally does not want this man to be ridiculed. But she didn’t understand it at all, thinking that this man would have to withstand her tests in pursuit of her.

Everyone should have guessed their ending? The man finally couldn’t bear to put up the breakup, thinking that the other party was just talking and didn’t save much, but this male colleague was really sad, he quit his job in the company When I went to Shenzhen, the woman knew how stupid she was, crying and not letting the man leave, saying that she would change, but it was too late. The man said it would be a while away. If it really suits each other, it will still Have a chance together. Or they will meet again in the future, but it is not difficult to see some phenomena of Chinese men and women falling in love. Women always value reservedness. They believe that in love, men should actively pursue and clearly like each other. It will not be expressed. Love is a matter of two people. Don’t always give one side, but know that if you stretch your hands for a long time, you will naturally let go when you are tired. If love is a burden, it will only end in giving up.

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